STRATEGI KOMUNIKASI KELUARGA SEBAGAI SALAH SATU ALTERNATIF MEMINIMALISIR DAMPAK NEGATIF TINGGINYA INTENSITAS PENGGUNAAN SOCIAL-MEDIA PADA REMAJA DI SURABAYA

Abstract

The family is the first educational environment for every child. Relationship between parent and child will be give a lot of positive things and comfort’s feel in a family. By creating an atmosphere of close communication and fun, the controlling of the child will be more effective. Especially when they get older and increasingly broad scope of interaction, the parent-adolescent communication should be improved in order to avoid communication gap. In recent years, the world of communication enlivened by social-media, where the lines of communication increasingly limitless. One name can have many personal accounts that are connected with a lot of other people's personal accounts, and communication to run indefinitely timescales. Update your status, post messages on social-media takes place every second. This makes the social-media users 'required' to always know the most recent news, so the time taken up just to read the posts on social-media. The child-adolescent-largest consumer of social media, is now becoming more frequent struggling with gadgetnya bercengrama rather than spend time at home with family members, including his parents. There is a concern if it is allowed to continue, then it will obviously lead loosening of the relationship between parent and child, the parents will have an impact on the ignorance of the child's relationships out there. Researchers are examining how family communication strategies to minimize the negative impact of the use of social-media is excessive. With the methods of phenomenology and in-depth interviews in the city of Surabaya, researchers have been involved directly and observe the daily life of several families of stratified random sampling